The Submissive Sadist & The Dominant Masochist
"people in this lifestyle find even the role of submissive or dominant a role-playing opportunity. Unlike those who find a deep affinity for these defining words as something describing their very nature, evolving but unchangeable as time commences, these lifestylers play at being submissive or dominant to get their kinky desires satisfied.
The submissive sadist enjoys causing the pain but is not truly in control. Ideally he or she will be matched up with a dominant masochist who enjoys receiving pain but likes to direct things a! s they move along. Again, if both parties are honest and willing, then who are we to judge it as unacceptable behavior? "