"I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the
leader. I want to live darkly
and richly in my femaleness. I want a man
lying over me, always over me. His
will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the
touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling all that I am capable of doing but I am going to be pursued, fucked,
possessed by
the will of a male at his time, his bidding."

Anais Nin